"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Text experts only how do I progress this chick onto a date?

EyeBRollin

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You shouldn't need more than 2-3 message convo to set the date. You're doing way to much, OP.

Respond to her text with a definite place and time when you have a definite place and time in mind. Set the date in as little steps as possible.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devilkingx2

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for the record, when people ask me what i was doing at X time(such as, earlier today or yesterday or last weekend) i usually say something along the lines of "I was discovering a valuable trick to getting more money at the bank: bringing a gun"

you need some of my wit and charm OP
 
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