Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ok i spoke to this HB last week on the phone from Facebook, it went really well she even called me at 1.30am on friday night?? i didn't answer but this was 2 days after i first spoke to her so i guess i must have done something right if she just called to talk.

anyway we were suppose to meet today after work and i confirmed it with her last night, she said yes.

then surprise surprise she flakes on me at lunch today saying that her work is offering free beauty treatments and she only found out last min and is sorry and could we reschedule our coffee.

i tried to be smart cos i already told her earlier i was going to the gym nearby anyway so we could meet after otherwise make it tomorrow cos i was busy friday. (i had to choose either tomorrow or friday as the 1 day to be busy)

anyway i made the mistake of choosing tomorrow cos she has a prior engagement (but if i chose friday she might be out with her work lot)

she replies back with that she didn't want to make plans today cos she didn't know what time she'd finish and she has prior engagement tomorrow so said 'next week?'

because it's only wednesday would it be better to have just responded with 'yeah' and left it till the weekend to follow up?

cos i feel i've left my balls hanging cos i text back saying 'yeah im quite busy next week tho, tuesdays no good for me but i can do monday after work, how's then?'

i'm not expecting a reply now.. and i feel in the run of the texting i seem too keen.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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pete101 said:
Ok i spoke to this HB last week on the phone from Facebook, it went really well she even called me at 1.30am on friday night?? i didn't answer but this was 2 days after i first spoke to her so i guess i must have done something right if she just called to talk.

anyway we were suppose to meet today after work and i confirmed it with her last night, she said yes.

then surprise surprise she flakes on me at lunch today saying that her work is offering free beauty treatments and she only found out last min and is sorry and could we reschedule our coffee.

i tried to be smart cos i already told her earlier i was going to the gym nearby anyway so we could meet after otherwise make it tomorrow cos i was busy friday. (i had to choose either tomorrow or friday as the 1 day to be busy)

anyway i made the mistake of choosing tomorrow cos she has a prior engagement (but if i chose friday she might be out with her work lot)

she replies back with that she didn't want to make plans today cos she didn't know what time she'd finish and she has prior engagement tomorrow so said 'next week?'

because it's only wednesday would it be better to have just responded with 'yeah' and left it till the weekend to follow up?

cos i feel i've left my balls hanging cos i text back saying 'yeah im quite busy next week tho, tuesdays no good for me but i can do monday after work, how's then?'

i'm not expecting a reply now.. and i feel in the run of the texting i seem too keen.
it seems all u do here is post about all these various flakes with different girls off facebook, u should reread your other threads that uve started theres pretty sound advice there...
 

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i did but each situation is different so i dont know what/how to do each time?
 
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