"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Text after hanging out with a "scientist"
- Thread starter tryst type
- Start date
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
When you go ghost, you log onto your cell phone provider's website and type her phone number into the blocked numbers list. I know for a fact that Verizon has this, and I'm sure most others do too.tryst type said:
Of course, I don't do this, but I'm not one of you many noobs who are too weak to just ignore her when the text/call comes in, and I enjoy the ego boost and the hilarity of the gall these women display.
5string
Master Don Juan
Yep^^^^Buddha_Mind said:
Hand her a broom and tell her to take off.
Nutz
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tryst type said:"I think you are wonderfully handsome and fun and while we both aspire for similar things, I think we're in very different chapters of our lives. My personality is too serious for yours. I have fun when appropriate while maintaining seriousness for life goals. I wouldn't mind maintaining a friendship with you"
My response: "K"
Her: "you'll find your match"
Me: "idk I might be too fun for girls
She's pretty much alluring to the fact that my current job is "whatever" as I'm a laborer at a local warehouse. Oh girlsss so predictable at times.
I'm starting to think Tom Leykis was on to something. Women fake attraction indicators by putting on makeup, wearing flattering clothes, high heels, push-up bras, etc, so why shouldn't men do the same thing when it comes to what women find attractive? And for the record I'm namely talking about status indicators. If that means fibbing about your job, then go for it. If this means hiring wing-women to fake preselection, then go for it. If it means doing anything that could cause women to find you more attractive in the social status/power arena, then I say it's fair game.
In the Science of Sex Appeal show they dabbled with this by taking pictures of the the men and circulating them on the sidewalk soliciting women for their opinion of the men's looks on a scale of 1 to 10. They did it a second time and also included fake jobs & incomes. The second time around the best looking guy who was then listed with a crappy job & income dropped several points, and the previously lowest rated man who they put down was an executive making over $300,000 was then viewed as the hottest of the bunch.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Buddha_Mind
Master Don Juan
That is some fvcked up sh1t. Sort of reminds me of another study someone told me about: They took a professional violinist (who had sold out a major auditorium the night before) and put him on the street (playing the same songs) and only a handful of people even stopped to listen or give him change (people paid $xx+ for tickets the night before).Nutz said:
Just shows you how the same ingredients (musical skill, talent, physique, etc, etc) becomes so determined by our social lens (the psychologies and perceptions we carry from our acculturation).
I still think intelligent people can try and see through these games...
The woman in this thread was just condescending, that's whats so ridiculous about it. She'll roam and roam until she finds some sappy guy who she compromises on looks so she gets her little fantasy of the 'professional' life and can leech off of his social status...LOL...ah man....
This chick thinks she can do better. That's all. It's typical. When her clock runs out, and she cuts off all her hair and spends her weekends home alone with her cats...she'll look back and possibly regret being such a kunt.
I wouldn't have responded at all. Your last text will only re-enforce her decision. It comes across as immature.
She is vindicated.
BeDJ
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I came back from a VAR conference, these Cisco women want to dominate the sh!t out of you.Nutz said: