Georgepithyou
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Anything that is you doing something to trigger different than normal behavior in the girl is a "compliance test". If she does what you want, then the result is positive, and it means keep going.
Tell her to give you a hug. Take her hand. Drag her somewhere else. Put your hand briefly on her knee or leg or shoulder or arm or across her lower back and hip. Pet her. Tell her to do something. Pull her pigtails.
Verbally, it's just a matter of how polite she's being. If she's still giving you **** tests, you're still early in the attraction. If she's being very sweet and friendly then she's "compliant", and the attraction building stuff can be relaxed a bit, and you can move on to rapport and comfort building.
But, don't get caught up in all the specific stuff, like compliance tests. After you've gotten a little bit of practice with it, you can sort of forget about the specific techniques.
If you're always escalating, always being flirty and fun, always being bold and assertive, you'll internalize the right behaviors with practice.
Tell her to give you a hug. Take her hand. Drag her somewhere else. Put your hand briefly on her knee or leg or shoulder or arm or across her lower back and hip. Pet her. Tell her to do something. Pull her pigtails.
Verbally, it's just a matter of how polite she's being. If she's still giving you **** tests, you're still early in the attraction. If she's being very sweet and friendly then she's "compliant", and the attraction building stuff can be relaxed a bit, and you can move on to rapport and comfort building.
But, don't get caught up in all the specific stuff, like compliance tests. After you've gotten a little bit of practice with it, you can sort of forget about the specific techniques.
If you're always escalating, always being flirty and fun, always being bold and assertive, you'll internalize the right behaviors with practice.
