"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tested by a HB Doctor, how to handle this?

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Yesterday I went to Non-profit Health Service. I wanted to get tested for STD (a condom was ripped during sex with a FB and I wanted to be sure I was OK)

When it was my turn, a HB 9+ ! , asked me to come along and she turned out to be the doctor/nurse (not sure about that)

She had to ask several questions about my sex life, so we had a nice convo about that. I was smiling all the time (she smiled too) She was very good looking and seemed to be a very nice woman (very rare combo)

She did the test and was (prof?) interested in my answers (job etc)

Ok flame me for this.... But the situation was IMHO too akward to (directly) ask her for her phone number etc.

- How would you guys have handled this?
- I have to call her next week for the result. 2nd chance....

Btw I spinning several plates.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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PlasticSurgeon said:
You should figure out whether she was a doctor or a nurse...
A really easy test of this is asking this question:

What is she wearing?

If she's wearing a white coat, she's a doctor.

If not, then she is probably a nurse.
 

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I'm guessing this is a STD clinic. I don't think they have doctors there. When I went to the health dept., a nurse practitioner did my STD test.
 

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J said:
She did the test and was (prof?) interested in my answers (job etc).
What sort of test did you get, was it only pee into a cup or did she feel your tool?! because if i was in your situation I would mention to her how your testicles some time hurt a bit so she will have to exam them with her hands :D
 

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Hey guys,

Reconsidering I think she was a nurse. She was wearing a very nice fitting jeans, a white blouse (no hospitalclothing) and a top (shirt).

Ok guys, what's the best way to handle this. I have no business there anymore. But I'm going to call her next week for the results.

I guess I just have to ask her If she wants to have some drinks together. Who dares Wins...

edit: the test was pee in a cup and give blood. I was very pleased she didnt examined my tools, because I was very happy to see her :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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J said:
edit: the test was pee in a cup and give blood. I was very pleased she didnt examined my tools, because I was very happy to see her :D
That is actually the best time to let her examine you, it shows that

A) You are confident in being hard around her

B) You are showing her that you are attracted to her

C) She can now check up and examine your tool and not only be impressed but if you go out on a date with her you won't be as nervous 'cause after all she did play with your d1ck already.

You missed an oppertuinty to do all that without being accused of sexual harassment.
 

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Anybody here watch Animaniacs when they were younger?

"Heloooo nurse!" Lol

Hmm, if you really want her number, erm... if she asked for your number to give YOU results you could always have busted on her for asking for your number after just a few minutes of meeting you, even if she was just phoning for medical reasons... Or do the same thing reversed when she gave you HERS...

As for your second chance, I can't see no easy way around it myself... You are going to have to ask straight... Maybe just before she hangs up something like:

"Oh and by the way do you have email..." If that is too uncomfortable try,
"Oh do you have email in case I get further problems?"

You could always replace email with number, whatever :)
 

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Don't waste your time. Come on think about this you're in there for a STD check up, and you think she may be interested with you getting this kind of examination?

If you were there for a general checkup, maybe. For an STD I wouldn't even consider a HB10 for health considerations.
 

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I would guess she is a nurse. Doctors are the next level of treatment! I would hit on her anyway. In my mind tho i would know everyone hits on her and that my chances might be slimmer. Try. Always try.
 

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PlasticSurgeon said:
You should figure out whether she was a doctor or a nurse...

It's so rare to find an HB doctor, most women in medical school are Fugly as hell.

There's and old quote in medical school that goes like this

"The ugliest women go to medical school whilst the hottest women marry doctors!"
Go to grad school for engineering. The girls gym coach at your high school was probably 10x hotter than any girl that I see on a daily basis. Med school girls look like supermodels compared to the girls that I see.

Back on topic - Worth a shot but its a doc (or whatever she was) at an STD clinic that you had to visit. Any women who administers my STD test is probably more worried about putting on gloves than getting in my pants (Although I am clean, thank you baby jesus). I guess that if you test clean she may be receptive.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Chrispy said:
I would guess she is a nurse. Doctors are the next level of treatment! I would hit on her anyway. In my mind tho i would know everyone hits on her and that my chances might be slimmer. Try. Always try.
everyone hits on her. no one (in his right mind) asks for her number. what have you got to lose?
 

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Throttle said:
everyone hits on her. no one (in his right mind) asks for her number. what have you got to lose?

I would guess she is a nurse. Doctors are the next level of treatment! I would hit on her anyway. In my mind tho i would know everyone hits on her and that my chances might be slimmer. Try. Always try.
Exactly ! That's the right mindset. I'll call her wednesday and ask...
That's all there's to it..
 

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Im clean ! Thanks for asking anyway :)

I called and she wasnt around.... F*ck that...

Better luck tomorrow :up:
 
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