You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Damn maybe this section could be like the old sosuave thenOriginally posted by crazykid
Lol. I doubt many people will know about it.
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.Originally posted by Big-J
Damn maybe this section could be like the old sosuave then
Try to NOT get it deleted. There's lots of good information here.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
This could be our secret forum. Only the DJs know about it. Its what everyone's been clamoring about. We should post A LOT more here.Originally posted by crazykid
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.
go on give us a tip, i searched for succes stories, and others, theres no success stories forum, help me out!Originally posted by Eternal
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
damn if only id read you more carefully, i just spent ages looking for the other forum that was still around. I found it and then came back here to say did so, but oh no, i then saw you crowing.Originally posted by Eternal
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.