I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Damn maybe this section could be like the old sosuave thenOriginally posted by crazykid
Lol. I doubt many people will know about it.
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.Originally posted by Big-J
Damn maybe this section could be like the old sosuave then
Try to NOT get it deleted. There's lots of good information here.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This could be our secret forum. Only the DJs know about it. Its what everyone's been clamoring about. We should post A LOT more here.Originally posted by crazykid
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.
go on give us a tip, i searched for succes stories, and others, theres no success stories forum, help me out!Originally posted by Eternal
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
damn if only id read you more carefully, i just spent ages looking for the other forum that was still around. I found it and then came back here to say did so, but oh no, i then saw you crowing.Originally posted by Eternal
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.