"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
DjDreamer
Master Don Juan
Newbies will be suprised when they check post history and they discover this forum...it's like somone touching a book in a library and the bookshelf spinning around to take them to a secret room.
Tons of great posts here, so this thing shouldn't go anywhere...By the way, the Success Stories forum is still around.Originally posted by Big-J
Damn maybe this section could be like the old sosuave then
Try to NOT get it deleted. There's lots of good information here.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
imnexthere
Don Juan
DaVinci
Don Juan
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
go on give us a tip, i searched for succes stories, and others, theres no success stories forum, help me out!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
WesCottII
Master Don Juan
damn if only id read you more carefully, i just spent ages looking for the other forum that was still around. I found it and then came back here to say did so, but oh no, i then saw you crowing.
Why is the success stories forum locked?