"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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**** Test

Rainman4707

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My girlfriend lives with me. She thinks I don't like it when she stays at her flat now & then (once a fortnight if that)

I've found out from her that she was testing me last week.

Rough Convo :-

Rainman :- Yeah, but last week you told me you were stopping at the flat.

GF :- When you were ripping my knickers off last week, I told you that I was stopping at the flat, but I was just joking around.

Rainman :- What!?

Gf :- Well I know you don't like me stopping at the flat so I wanted to see your reaction, but you weren't bothered...probs to engrossed in getting my clothes off.

Rainman :- Ah, well. You shouldn't joke around like that.

Gf :- I told you again another time & you weren't bothered then either. Strange.

Rainman :- So you were trying to antagonise me. Actually you were testing me.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Yewki

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Rainman4707 said:
GF :- When you were ripping my knickers off last week, I told you that I was stopping at the flat, but I was just joking around.

Rainman :- What!?
You walked into the sh*t test. This could have been fine if you were prepared to go along and tease her about it, but you weren't. You should have immediately started messing with her... for example I would have responded with something like "... annnnd den??"

Rainman4707 said:
Gf :- Well I know you don't like me stopping at the flat so I wanted to see your reaction, but you weren't bothered...probs to engrossed in getting my clothes off.

Rainman :- Ah, well. You shouldn't joke around like that.
Now your shoes are caked in sh*t from walking around in it.

Rainman4707 said:
Gf :- I told you again another time & you weren't bothered then either. Strange.

Rainman :- So you were trying to antagonise me. Actually you were testing me.
Now you're combing through the sh*t with your hands.

My question to you is, why? You're trying to address her sh*t test logically in a serious manner... this is just going to result in sh*t getting everywhere. The best defense against a sh*t test, is not giving a sh*t. So stop giving a sh*t.
 

stevo

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Hahaha you spilled your feelings bro. Dries up the panties.

Don't take sheet too seriously, joke around with it plus you don't call a girl out on sheet testing you, it's better if they don't know about your DJ knowledge, makes life easier.

Back away from her for a little bit, reclaim your frame.

Dont bring this up again and expect more sheet test too.
 
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