"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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**** Test

Rainman4707

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My girlfriend lives with me. She thinks I don't like it when she stays at her flat now & then (once a fortnight if that)

I've found out from her that she was testing me last week.

Rough Convo :-

Rainman :- Yeah, but last week you told me you were stopping at the flat.

GF :- When you were ripping my knickers off last week, I told you that I was stopping at the flat, but I was just joking around.

Rainman :- What!?

Gf :- Well I know you don't like me stopping at the flat so I wanted to see your reaction, but you weren't bothered...probs to engrossed in getting my clothes off.

Rainman :- Ah, well. You shouldn't joke around like that.

Gf :- I told you again another time & you weren't bothered then either. Strange.

Rainman :- So you were trying to antagonise me. Actually you were testing me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Rainman4707 said:
GF :- When you were ripping my knickers off last week, I told you that I was stopping at the flat, but I was just joking around.

Rainman :- What!?
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You walked into the sh*t test. This could have been fine if you were prepared to go along and tease her about it, but you weren't. You should have immediately started messing with her... for example I would have responded with something like "... annnnd den??"

Rainman4707 said:
Gf :- Well I know you don't like me stopping at the flat so I wanted to see your reaction, but you weren't bothered...probs to engrossed in getting my clothes off.

Rainman :- Ah, well. You shouldn't joke around like that.
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Now your shoes are caked in sh*t from walking around in it.

Rainman4707 said:
Gf :- I told you again another time & you weren't bothered then either. Strange.

Rainman :- So you were trying to antagonise me. Actually you were testing me.
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Now you're combing through the sh*t with your hands.

My question to you is, why? You're trying to address her sh*t test logically in a serious manner... this is just going to result in sh*t getting everywhere. The best defense against a sh*t test, is not giving a sh*t. So stop giving a sh*t.
 
stevo

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Hahaha you spilled your feelings bro. Dries up the panties.

Don't take sheet too seriously, joke around with it plus you don't call a girl out on sheet testing you, it's better if they don't know about your DJ knowledge, makes life easier.

Back away from her for a little bit, reclaim your frame.

Dont bring this up again and expect more sheet test too.
 
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