"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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**** test? Yeah I think so.

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I came across a girl I went to HS with. I had a crush on her during my AFC days and obviously did nothing about. Sadly, it was at Myspace.com that I saw her profile. I really hate that site, but its good for old friends. Whatever.

Her profile wasnt all barbie dolled up with naked toons and Prada bags with stupid Ciara music videos. But rather how shes sarcastic, a *****, loves to have fun, etc. Female alpha.

So I messaged her saying shes ****y etc. She ate it up. We've been talking for a few days (it took her a while to figure out who I was, and even then she didnt remember me- talk about being outgoing in HS on my part). Anways today she said shes going lesbian because shes sick of guys, blah blah blah. This came out of NOWHERE. Although she is bi. I kept the talk BS, and she kept up with me.

I played it off. But I told her if she becomes one of those evil Lifetime girls who hates men I wouldnt talk to her. Next message had nothing to do with her "going" lesbo at all.

I know this is really sad for me to even be questioning this, but I think I can safely say test one passed. I guess the only reason I care is because I used to have a crush on her. I dont anymore, but shes still a cutey, and I want to !close it soon. Its just that when this crap happens online, you cant read body language.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I didn't write "****". It changed it.
 

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cool you can say ****?

hey you son of a ***** howd you beat the censor
 

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you know I actually like the censor. takes me back to the good old fashioned days when people were polite.
 

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More message continue, more playful questions. Whatever though, I cant get oneitis over this girl. Although I do feel like its some redemption.

I failed in HS to hook up, her she is 5 years later just sitting in my crosshairs.

:rolleyes:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EDIT: LOL ok there was a post above this one but it got deleted.

Yeah I guess a tiny part of me still wants her. Shes not a pedestal though.

The thing is in high school, we knew of each other, but didn't actually know each other.

I really wish that I had ran across her in public that way I could better judge the situation and establish a comfort zone.
 

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Quit reporting everything.
 
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You know there were replies to this message, I cant help that they get deleted.
 
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