"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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**** test or does this woman not think before she speaks?

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Went out with a plate of mine, been seeing her for about three months, once a week. I noticed her checking out some other dude at a restaurant, she made it pretty obvious. She seemed pretty tipsy. She has never checked out any guys in front of me in the beginning stages and there were plenty of attractive guys to check out. I dont care too much because I am spinning other plates but I do see it as a sign of disrespect because she has really been pushing for exclusivity. I dont let it phase me and go on as usual. She did disqualify herself from an LTR. Seems like the type to get wild after a few drinks.

We go home and bang. After sex she keeps asking me how am I still single. She doesnt understand how I havent been scooped up by a woman yet. She is dying to know what my story is but I remain mysterious and dont reveal shiit. She asked me if I was dating other girls and I told her I was on a date two weeks ago, she responded, Okay, thanks for being honest.

A few minutes later she was telling me how she wasnt intially physically attracted to me when we first met but my "game" and "kino" made me attractive to her. I ignored but I wanted to tell her to go fack herself. Im a little above her league but everyones got their type right?! Turned me off completely. Who the hell says that out loud. Didnt seem like a **** test. How do I react to this, annoyed the shiit out of me. I am thinking of demoting her to booty call status. I sexed her a few times after that and jizzed in her mouth which made me a feel better. Its a shame, saw some potential in this one.
 
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I noticed her checking out some other dude at a restaurant, she made it pretty obvious.

She has never checked out any guys in front of me in the beginning stages.

she has really been pushing for exclusivity.
Her words don’t mean much, but that kind of action speaks for itself.
Her thinking she’s still in the market or trying to get a jealousy/action reaction out of you, take your pick.
 
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She bangs you cause you're attractive and mysterious to her mind, but on the other hand she is playing dirty to get what she wants which is a relationship and the way she is trying to do it tells a lot about her.

Manipulative, controlling. Keep for sex, don't even think about LTR with this one.
 

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Who the hell says that out loud.
I'm a little confused on what you are mad about. Is it because she said that she wasn't initially physically attracted to you?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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She meant to compliment you, dumbass. That’s a chick’s way of saying how she really likes you. But they’re very indirect so they don’t verbalize it like how a guy would.
 

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She's looking elsewhere because you aren't interested in making a commitment.

She said those things hoping to communicate that she's into you and wants to be exclusive.

As time rolls by, she will drift away because she will really start to understand she's not going to get anything real out if you.
 

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she wasnt intially physically attracted to me when we first met but my "game" and "kino" made me attractive to her.
yep

women = mind then body
men = body then mind
 

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Totally disagree. I've heard this plenty of times, it has more to do with her being validated by a much better looking guy recently.
It's not always "better looking". For many girls more popular or big on her social circle Trump's better looking .
 

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She meant to compliment you, dumbass. That’s a chick’s way of saying how she really likes you. But they’re very indirect so they don’t verbalize it like how a guy would.
She has no problem telling me she likes me, does it every week. Even The way she says “I really like you” reminds me of the time when I was AFC and said it to my oneitis with the same tone.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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All of this conversation means your too focused on someone your not exclusive with. Bang another girl you like, ignore this one.
 

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Totally disagree. I've heard this plenty of times, it has more to do with her being validated by a much better looking guy recently.
Not recently. It means that they know they can get better looking guys in general, but you stuck out to them enough that they chose you over the rest.
 

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She has no problem telling me she likes me, does it every week. Even The way she says “I really like you” reminds me of the time when I was AFC and said it to my oneitis with the same tone.
It’s just another way of saying it though. You’re getting upset over nothing. It wasn’t meant as an insult.
 

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Not recently. It means that they know they can get better looking guys in general, but you stuck out to them enough that they chose you over the rest.
Bishes in the hb6/7 range with nothing to offer think they can upgrade to a male with value who is an 8 or 9, especially these women from OLD. Just another reason to continue spinning more and more plates.
 
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