"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Digidako

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What's going on guys ?
Long story short i've been dating this girl for a couple months and about 10 minutes ago, a friend of hers added me on Facebook (my gf is her only mutual friend) and started flirting with me via chat. I feel like she's insulting my intelligence by "trying" to pull a fast one over me, but I really don't know how to approach this. I want to try and turn the tables here but really dont know where to begin, input would be great guys.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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MidnightCity said:
its a trap.

the friend is trying to feel you out so she can report back to your girl and give her her overall impression of you.

i kid you not, on nights out which have ended as ONS i have had to pass the friend approval test. its pretty standard and i can see it coming a mile away. so much so that i incorporate it into my game plan
The first message her friend sent me way "Hey Cutie :)" so the way I see it is if I were to reply and try and keep the conversation going I'm going to fail no matter what. On the other hand, if I don't respond she's going to think I'm just a **** who reads and doesn't respond. The latter seems like a better option at this point
 
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