Test #1

[Digidako]

What's going on guys ?
Long story short i've been dating this girl for a couple months and about 10 minutes ago, a friend of hers added me on Facebook (my gf is her only mutual friend) and started flirting with me via chat. I feel like she's insulting my intelligence by "trying" to pull a fast one over me, but I really don't know how to approach this. I want to try and turn the tables here but really dont know where to begin, input would be great guys.
THANKS

 

[Digidako]

its a trap.

the friend is trying to feel you out so she can report back to your girl and give her her overall impression of you.

i kid you not, on nights out which have ended as ONS i have had to pass the friend approval test. its pretty standard and i can see it coming a mile away. so much so that i incorporate it into my game plan

The first message her friend sent me way "Hey Cutie " so the way I see it is if I were to reply and try and keep the conversation going I'm going to fail no matter what. On the other hand, if I don't respond she's going to think I'm just a **** who reads and doesn't respond. The latter seems like a better option at this point

 

[apprenticedj]

Definitely don't respond, you know it's a trap, better to stay quiet rather than try to walk the tightrope.