"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Digidako

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What's going on guys ?
Long story short i've been dating this girl for a couple months and about 10 minutes ago, a friend of hers added me on Facebook (my gf is her only mutual friend) and started flirting with me via chat. I feel like she's insulting my intelligence by "trying" to pull a fast one over me, but I really don't know how to approach this. I want to try and turn the tables here but really dont know where to begin, input would be great guys.
THANKS
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Digidako

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MidnightCity said:
its a trap.

the friend is trying to feel you out so she can report back to your girl and give her her overall impression of you.

i kid you not, on nights out which have ended as ONS i have had to pass the friend approval test. its pretty standard and i can see it coming a mile away. so much so that i incorporate it into my game plan
The first message her friend sent me way "Hey Cutie :)" so the way I see it is if I were to reply and try and keep the conversation going I'm going to fail no matter what. On the other hand, if I don't respond she's going to think I'm just a **** who reads and doesn't respond. The latter seems like a better option at this point
 
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