"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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territorial and feelings for my FWB

grimtim

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i've been fwbs with a woman for about a month now and at first it was just sex. now all of a sudden im starting to get a little jealous over her when other guy try to hit on her or if i she is flirting with others.. i do not tell or show her but innside i feel it. i even snoop in her fb inbox. she is not wife material and i know better, but idk why im starting to like her. im also fwbs with other girl but i dont feel it as much as i do for this fwb. can someone tell me whats going on?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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TheSlasher

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I dunno, man. But it kinda sucks when **** like this happen, no?
 

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grimtim said:
i've been fwbs with a woman for about a month now and at first it was just sex. now all of a sudden im starting to get a little jealous over her when other guy try to hit on her or if i she is flirting with others.. i do not tell or show her but innside i feel it. i even snoop in her fb inbox. she is not wife material and i know better, but idk why im starting to like her. im also fwbs with other girl but i dont feel it as much as i do for this fwb. can someone tell me whats going on?
Your hormones are acting up with this girl is probably it.
 

Tomo

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ABORT ABORT

No.1) You've stated she is not girlfriend material so what are you letting your feelings get in the way
No.2) FWB means basically just that - she is just a friend

If you read through many of these threads, you'll see that they all follow a common path line. The moment she finds out you like her, say good bye to the FWB situation.
 
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