i've been fwbs with a woman for about a month now and at first it was just sex. now all of a sudden im starting to get a little jealous over her when other guy try to hit on her or if i she is flirting with others.. i do not tell or show her but innside i feel it. i even snoop in her fb inbox. she is not wife material and i know better, but idk why im starting to like her. im also fwbs with other girl but i dont feel it as much as i do for this fwb. can someone tell me whats going on?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
territorial and feelings for my FWB
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
TheSlasher
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I dunno, man. But it kinda sucks when **** like this happen, no?
AttackFormation
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Your hormones are acting up with this girl is probably it.grimtim said:
ABORT ABORT
No.1) You've stated she is not girlfriend material so what are you letting your feelings get in the way
No.2) FWB means basically just that - she is just a friend
If you read through many of these threads, you'll see that they all follow a common path line. The moment she finds out you like her, say good bye to the FWB situation.
No.1) You've stated she is not girlfriend material so what are you letting your feelings get in the way
No.2) FWB means basically just that - she is just a friend
If you read through many of these threads, you'll see that they all follow a common path line. The moment she finds out you like her, say good bye to the FWB situation.