You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Bunk 040 said:She lame, when a hoe tell you **** like that dont try and up her one. Just be like "why you telling me bout that ****?" and sound annoyed.
Aint nothing wrong with him callin her n seeing how she doin, cause she probably call him too n tryna play it like she don like the dude no more. These hoes got game brah, the can make a lame think anything.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Bunk 040 said:I mean **** you gave her your opinion and thats how you felt. It also sounded good cause you made her feel like it was lame. But when hoes tell me something like that, I dont be interested in that and I let them know, probably too harshly. lol. thats just me though.
Just call her over, then **** her. She will ****. Then if you want her, tell her not to let something as little as that **** up a relationship with so much potential.
Thats what experience do to you. You learn how to touch they emotions and ****. You gotta know how to touch they emotions like a man supposed to, not they girlfriends.My Name is Nobody said:Thanks Bunk 040. Do me a favor and keep posting you make alot of sense.
Bunk 040 said:Thats what experience do to you. You learn how to touch they emotions and ****. You gotta know how to touch they emotions like a man supposed to, not they girlfriends.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
I can only guess what emotions she's feeling for me. What do you think?Bunk 040 said:LOL. You know that **** aint the key.
Aint no particular key to they heart cause they all different. A lot of hoes had numerous dudes **** for 3 hours, and didn't give a **** bout them after that and went to the next one.
They are emotional, to get her heart you gotta **** her good but you gotta already have her on the emotional side cause it'll be way more special to her. But all hoes is different so you gotta have conversation with her and see what kinda hoe she is, and most of em lie so its all bout the dude. I mastered that ****.
Dont reply.My Name is Nobody said:well she just emailed me about coming over again this week, check it out:
"No I am still in trauma, I don't want to drive or go to your house for a while.. I am sorry.
But thanks it was very nice of you."
How should I reply?
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Learn how to get some *****, **** you reading my posts for anyway.MooseGod said:Bunk 040, learn how to speak proper English. People who don't are annoying as hell.
The new girl sounds like she's being straight with you. Would you want to date a chick who's psycho ex boyfriend is always around and starting trouble? Hell no.
Well, too late.Bunk 040 said:Dont reply.
Bunk 040 said:Just start messing with other girls, thats all I can tell you. That **** she talking bout is petty. I'll just stop worrying bout her, she probably found somebody else to ****. lol. That how they are, that's why ****ing them 8 times dont really mean nothing. Live and Learn I guess.
Yeah you gotta play it cool cause once you start begging and ****, she aint gon be worried bout you no more cause you all up on her and she aint gotta worry bout tryna keep you no more. But if you got more hoes to mess with you wouldn't be "playing it cool" you'd be cool about it.My Name is Nobody said:We'll see what happens. Hopefully I'll get another round.
At least I'm playing it cool and not begging her to spend time with me like an AFC would and I think it's driving her crazy!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bunk 040 said:Yeah you gotta play it cool cause once you start begging and ****, she aint gon be worried bout you no more cause you all up on her and she aint gotta worry bout tryna keep you no more. But if you got more hoes to mess with you wouldn't be "playing it cool" you'd be cool about it.