Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Bunk 040 said:She lame, when a hoe tell you **** like that dont try and up her one. Just be like "why you telling me bout that ****?" and sound annoyed.
Aint nothing wrong with him callin her n seeing how she doin, cause she probably call him too n tryna play it like she don like the dude no more. These hoes got game brah, the can make a lame think anything.
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Bunk 040 said:I mean **** you gave her your opinion and thats how you felt. It also sounded good cause you made her feel like it was lame. But when hoes tell me something like that, I dont be interested in that and I let them know, probably too harshly. lol. thats just me though.
Just call her over, then **** her. She will ****. Then if you want her, tell her not to let something as little as that **** up a relationship with so much potential.
Thats what experience do to you. You learn how to touch they emotions and ****. You gotta know how to touch they emotions like a man supposed to, not they girlfriends.My Name is Nobody said:Thanks Bunk 040. Do me a favor and keep posting you make alot of sense.
Bunk 040 said:Thats what experience do to you. You learn how to touch they emotions and ****. You gotta know how to touch they emotions like a man supposed to, not they girlfriends.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I can only guess what emotions she's feeling for me. What do you think?Bunk 040 said:LOL. You know that **** aint the key.
Aint no particular key to they heart cause they all different. A lot of hoes had numerous dudes **** for 3 hours, and didn't give a **** bout them after that and went to the next one.
They are emotional, to get her heart you gotta **** her good but you gotta already have her on the emotional side cause it'll be way more special to her. But all hoes is different so you gotta have conversation with her and see what kinda hoe she is, and most of em lie so its all bout the dude. I mastered that ****.
Dont reply.My Name is Nobody said:well she just emailed me about coming over again this week, check it out:
"No I am still in trauma, I don't want to drive or go to your house for a while.. I am sorry.
But thanks it was very nice of you."
How should I reply?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Learn how to get some *****, **** you reading my posts for anyway.MooseGod said:Bunk 040, learn how to speak proper English. People who don't are annoying as hell.
The new girl sounds like she's being straight with you. Would you want to date a chick who's psycho ex boyfriend is always around and starting trouble? Hell no.
Well, too late.Bunk 040 said:Dont reply.
Bunk 040 said:Just start messing with other girls, thats all I can tell you. That **** she talking bout is petty. I'll just stop worrying bout her, she probably found somebody else to ****. lol. That how they are, that's why ****ing them 8 times dont really mean nothing. Live and Learn I guess.
Yeah you gotta play it cool cause once you start begging and ****, she aint gon be worried bout you no more cause you all up on her and she aint gotta worry bout tryna keep you no more. But if you got more hoes to mess with you wouldn't be "playing it cool" you'd be cool about it.My Name is Nobody said:We'll see what happens. Hopefully I'll get another round.
At least I'm playing it cool and not begging her to spend time with me like an AFC would and I think it's driving her crazy!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Bunk 040 said:Yeah you gotta play it cool cause once you start begging and ****, she aint gon be worried bout you no more cause you all up on her and she aint gotta worry bout tryna keep you no more. But if you got more hoes to mess with you wouldn't be "playing it cool" you'd be cool about it.