Tension loop

[Max Power]

Hey there

I'm new to all this and have recently been incorporating tension loops with women when they ask me questions about myself.

My favourite is to say, for example when they ask my name, "Guess?" They give an answer and I say, "Oh my God. You're amazing." Then they say, "Did I get it?" and I say, "No."

It's quite fun.

Anywho... was at this party this week and this girl HB6 who works in my industry and is new in town asked me where I worked and without me asking she took a guess. I said, "Guess again." And she refused, got all worked up and said, "No!"

What would you do?

Just give the answer?
Or continue refuse to give the answer?

 

[Themanthatcan]

I do the whole "guess" thing too. But if she doesn't want to guess anymore just say "I don't know if you can handle the truth". Tease her for a while on that, then eventually tell her your an underwear model or something out of the ordinary like that..

 

[Blue Dude]

Depens on situation. You have to read her body language. If you notice she is unvilling to buy into your frame and answer, you can do 1 of 2 things.

1. You can keep the frame, be a man, be outcome dependent, dont tell her and continue conversation in another direction or go on with your party

2. You can keep the frame, you can tell her and continue conversation in another direction but still be outcome dependant

Now since you are new to this I'd say, don't answer and don't buy into her frame. And you dont even have to continue talking to her.

-Blue Dude