"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Tenacity Banned??
- Thread starter bigneil
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
blind_one
Master Don Juan
From what I've heard yeah, sometimes multiple times.
Augustus_McCrae
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-Augustus-
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
190cmofcancer
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Sho-No-Luv
Senior Don Juan
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/threads/please-unban-tenacity.242204/
He was one of my favorites!
Yes, it's only temporary, but its 60 days. Doubt if he'll come back.
I studied Pook's every post in 2011. His main theme was screening out the women that are no good. He recommended flaking if necessary, saying never to go out if it's not convenient for you. Everyone should read Pook. There was never another dating coach like Pook that I knew of.
Solomon
Master Don Juan
I use to be active on the forum from 2008-2013. Since than it's of and on the quality of posters since 2013 has gone down sharply and in a weird way
all of a sudden these "MGTOW" guys came on the forum, this forum was never meant for mgtow because if you're a man going your own way what's the point of studying seduction?
MGTOW focus to much on female nature and not self improvment i.e. angry mgtow. sandman etc
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Absolutely correct, liked. When I was on the forum 12-13 years ago it was guys helping each other out without the vitriol that is now common. Discussions were more substantive, focused upon theory, applications, and the development of excellence. There was a lot of the DJ Bible in discussions.
I think the most logical conclusion to draw is the posts on this forum reflect what is going on in the field and in society.
Clearly the quality of women has degraded even more from 12-13 years ago. These "millennial" c*nts are more dysfunctional and self-centered than their Gen-X sisters. And MAYBE another factor is a lot of guys studied seduction along with self-improvement, self-improvement, self-improvement, up the ying-yang only to realize they were self-improving to appeal to a batch of low quality, chicken-head, shallow, trash women.
I don't regret getting my finances together at all because MONEY is good to have regardless of the market. But self-improvement for the sake of attracting women is not much of a reward if the women are garbage. Men were expecting a pot of gold at the base of the rainbow. They traveled long and far to reach the base of that rainbow only to find a pile of cow turds.
So of course the forum has changed.
