Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Ten Politically Incorrect Truths About Human Nature

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Most women benefit from polygyny, while most men benefit from monogamy
When there is resource inequality among men—the case in every human society—most women benefit from polygyny: women can share a wealthy man. Under monogamy, they are stuck with marrying a poorer man.

The only exceptions are extremely desirable women. Under monogamy, they can monopolize the wealthiest men; under polygyny, they must share the men with other, less desirable women. However, the situation is exactly opposite for men. Monogamy guarantees that every man can find a wife. True, less desirable men can marry only less desirable women, but that's much better than not marrying anyone at all.

Men in monogamous societies imagine they would be better off under polygyny. What they don't realize is that, for most men who are not extremely desirable, polygyny means no wife at all, or, if they are lucky, a wife who is much less desirable than one they could get under monogamy.

Hahahha!!


^^Above is bull sh1t in its purest form. Author must truly desire gold diggers, and making money equates to game.
 

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I don't find blonds particularly more attractive than any other race or white women in general. I can't remember off the top of my head many guys who think that way either. Blue eye color is a nice twist, but I find it equally nice to green eyes. I've seen nice eyes with red tints in magazines, I'm not sure if thats natural though. Women with light/blonde hair also dye their hair darker colors sometimes. All this makes me doubt the rest of the article.

This article has some intelligent perspectives and info, but I have a feeling that elitism was part of the motivation in writing this article.

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white>other races
christianity> other religions
men>women
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Pretty interesting. I don't agree with the accessment of blondes though. He didn't prove that preference for blondes was universal. Now if he showed studies that men in isolated tribes in the Amazon and S. Pacific also prefered blonde European woman over their own, then I might be convinced, but I think the preference we do see is manufactured by media and a culture where caucasian beauty standards are sold as the most desirable. I mean Goth and emo people find black hair attractive, punks find green and purple hair attractive(even if fake), I think what we consider attractive is very maleable.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Actually in asian countries lighter skin is preferred. But in American and European countries tanner skin is preferred. I've seen many girls who I thought were Filipino from behind but when they turned around, they were totally white. They just had fake tans, lol.

I think this has more to do with being 'exotic' than any instinctual human desire. When you're different, you stand out thus you get more attention.

Here are some guys trying to be brown:
http://korzik.net/uploads/posts/1182776970_25_podborka_29.jpg
 
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# Most suicide bombers are Muslim

According to the Oxford University sociologist Diego Gambetta, editor of Making Sense of Suicide Missions, a comprehensive history of this troubling yet topical phenomenon, while suicide missions are not always religiously motivated, when religion is involved, it is always Muslim. Why is this? Why is Islam the only religion that motivates its followers to commit suicide missions?

The surprising answer from the evolutionary psychological perspective is that Muslim suicide bombing may have nothing to do with Islam or the Koran (except for two lines in it). It may have nothing to do with the religion, politics, the culture, the race, the ethnicity, the language, or the region. As with everything else from this perspective, it may have a lot to do with sex, or, in this case, the absence of sex.


BOGUS!!

They are suicide bombers because they don't have factories to make munitions, tanks, planes etc!! A human cruise missile is their delivery system. Why muslims? Because all cases of suicides bombers only arise due to retaliation for military occupation by so-called jews and christians who are the unlawful occupiers of their lands!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:


They are suicide bombers because they don't have factories to make munitions, tanks, planes etc!! A human cruise missile is their delivery system. Why muslims? Because all cases of suicides bombers only arise due to retaliation for military occupation by so-called jews and christians who are the unlawful occupiers of their lands!!
Bull****, there are moslem terrorists in India, Phillipines, Indonesia, Nigeria, Morrocco, Algeria and Thailand as well. Tell me that there are Jews and Christians unlawfulling occupying those lands as well.
 

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@ Last Man Standing

Then how come any of the muslim countries that have the capacity to make all that stuff don't harbor suicide bombers? They don't cuz they have good lives. They don't wanna give it up to be a bomber. Most of the suicide bombers live in countries with ****ty conditions. Even if they get to live some where else, their friends and family still live in ****ty conditions. Also, by that time they would be brainwashed too much.

. . .Maybe if we sent prostitudes into those countries, their Al Qaeda would numbers dwindle?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Last Man Standing said:
# Most suicide bombers are Muslim

According to the Oxford University sociologist Diego Gambetta, editor of Making Sense of Suicide Missions, a comprehensive history of this troubling yet topical phenomenon, while suicide missions are not always religiously motivated, when religion is involved, it is always Muslim. Why is this? Why is Islam the only religion that motivates its followers to commit suicide missions?

The surprising answer from the evolutionary psychological perspective is that Muslim suicide bombing may have nothing to do with Islam or the Koran (except for two lines in it). It may have nothing to do with the religion, politics, the culture, the race, the ethnicity, the language, or the region. As with everything else from this perspective, it may have a lot to do with sex, or, in this case, the absence of sex.


BOGUS!!

They are suicide bombers because they don't have factories to make munitions, tanks, planes etc!! A human cruise missile is their delivery system. Why muslims? Because all cases of suicides bombers only arise due to retaliation for military occupation by so-called jews and christians who are the unlawful occupiers of their lands!!
Haha, I always knew you were an Anti-American liberal!!
 
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I am pro human - pro truth! There was a book written that has studied suicide bombers since 1981 and ALL were from countries who were occupied by a foreign power!! I said all!!!

Terror originates from governments -- White Americans terrorized the Natives of the whole western hemisphere and the African slaves -- all European countries terrorized the whole continent of Africa and Asia nations!! The British terrorized the Indians from India. Now they are terrorizing the Arabs of the world -- so who are the terrorist???

You boys are living in the Matrix - the media is controlled by the terrorists - mafiosos!

Deus is a fascist and supports terrorists by his slanderous hateful speech - kill humans, kill kill kill!!
 

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#1 on the list, the "blonde bombshell" theory, is the usual evolutionary psychology hogwash.

I'm a card-carrying believer in evolution, but the psychological stuff is irrational, unfalsifiable pseudoscience (Sorry Rollo).

Blonde hair arose so MEN could tell which women were young? How does it benefit the WOMAN's survival or reproductive chances to have a hair color that makes her attractiveness decline so rapidly?

A lot of this evolutionary stuff is just pointing at features, like blond hair, and making up silly little reasons for them that had nothing to do with someone's odds of reproducing.

The true reason for blond hair is the same as the reason for male pattern baldness: there is no fvcking reason.
 

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mahon83050 said:
Haha, I always knew you were an Anti-American liberal!!
You have got to be kidding!

How it that anti-American?
I guess the truth is becoming anti-American.

They are fighting the most powerful country in the world with no money. It is not totally different then Americans dieing for their country?

He is not supporting them. It's just the truth.

Do you think they would need to brainwash the kids into becoming suicide bombers if they were richer then America?
 

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Yeah, humans must have been polygamous throughout history because men are taller than women. :rolleyes:

I agree that Islam is a f*cked-up religion, due in part to their tolerance of polygamy, but the authors of thjs article must have forgotten about the Japanese kamikazes. They were following religion, too.

Their analysis of suicide bombing is pretty sound, though. Sexual dynamics and the promise of 70 virgins really does influence a lot of those young guys.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stuntmann said:
Hahahha!!


^^Above is bull sh1t in its purest form. Author must truly desire gold diggers, and making money equates to game.
It's not bull****. In a polygynist society only the top 10%-15% of men will have women. This will result in a large underclass that will become very desperate and very angry. Historically when there has been a woman shortage two things have resulted: war and rape.

The Rape of the Sabines is a Roman example of such an event, and the Bible has examples too.
 

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Very good article. Worth a read for sure.

I have always preferred brunettes though. In fact, its about the only definite physical preference I have for women. Other than that, I enjoy the variety.
 

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Obsidian said:
Their analysis of suicide bombing is pretty sound, though. Sexual dynamics and the promise of 70 virgins really does influence a lot of those young guys.
Yeah. I have a feeling that all those guys were getting bj's right now, they wouldn't do that stuff.

Hopefully the rest of the muslim countries will follow and model themselves after Dubai and Jordan. Dubai is booming and the other muslim countries will take notice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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