"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Tempting foods on the holidays when trying to get in shape

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I just went back to the gym almost two weeks ago, after over a year of inactivity and eating carelessly. I'll be going to my cousin's place for a family Xmas dinner, which I wish was happening on my cheat day, but isn't. What's the best way to work around this? Should I make that day my cheat day, or should I work out and follow my diet that day, with the exception of that meal? I don't wanna get off course, since I'm just beginning to get back on groove. I wanna build the kind of body I only dreamed of having years ago.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warboss Alex

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overanalyser alert. again.

.. Okay, I'd just posted up a really pr!ckish post on the general theme of 'your attitude needs changing' but instead I'll be nice since it's christmas and everything. :)

Make your family dinner your cheat day, have fun and eat whatever the hell you want. One day is not gonna ruin you by any stretch of the imagination. You're only just getting back into it, it's not like you're dieting for a show or anything.

Lighten up mate, and don't be so obssessive compulsive. It's Christmas, enjoy the festive atmosphere and the company of your family. If you're sensible for the rest of the year one bad christmas dinner won't mean a thing as concerns the quality of your physique.
 

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its xmas man, chill. just make sure u stick to ur regime when the holidays end.
 

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If you believe in God then pig out.

If you don't then stick to your diet. :)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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