"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tempting foods on the holidays when trying to get in shape

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I just went back to the gym almost two weeks ago, after over a year of inactivity and eating carelessly. I'll be going to my cousin's place for a family Xmas dinner, which I wish was happening on my cheat day, but isn't. What's the best way to work around this? Should I make that day my cheat day, or should I work out and follow my diet that day, with the exception of that meal? I don't wanna get off course, since I'm just beginning to get back on groove. I wanna build the kind of body I only dreamed of having years ago.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Warboss Alex

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overanalyser alert. again.

.. Okay, I'd just posted up a really pr!ckish post on the general theme of 'your attitude needs changing' but instead I'll be nice since it's christmas and everything. :)

Make your family dinner your cheat day, have fun and eat whatever the hell you want. One day is not gonna ruin you by any stretch of the imagination. You're only just getting back into it, it's not like you're dieting for a show or anything.

Lighten up mate, and don't be so obssessive compulsive. It's Christmas, enjoy the festive atmosphere and the company of your family. If you're sensible for the rest of the year one bad christmas dinner won't mean a thing as concerns the quality of your physique.
 

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its xmas man, chill. just make sure u stick to ur regime when the holidays end.
 

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If you believe in God then pig out.

If you don't then stick to your diet. :)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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