"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Telling women about other women

GetWhatUGive

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Ok, as a matter of respect, I don't tell "friends with benefits" about other women I'm with. They are not my girlfriend but I don't talk about that stuff with women.

It makes them wonder and their imagination goes wild anyway.

What do you say?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ElChoclo

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They must have overactive imaginations. Is there some inference we should draw from your remarks?
 

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ok

sorry, I'll rephrase it. The question is do you think telling women nothing about the other women you're with makes them imagine more or that it's better to drop little hints to keep them on edge and interested.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Why do you care?

If they're just FB, why would you want them to be more interested?

Are you sleeping with them hoping to have them fall in love with you? If so, this is a piss poor way of doing it.
 

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I think the former but I'd never get myself in this situation.

Its really a stupid idea to talk to women about other women you've dated. There is no point to it and it leaves you open for drama.
 
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