"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Telling women about other women

GetWhatUGive

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Ok, as a matter of respect, I don't tell "friends with benefits" about other women I'm with. They are not my girlfriend but I don't talk about that stuff with women.

It makes them wonder and their imagination goes wild anyway.

What do you say?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ElChoclo

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They must have overactive imaginations. Is there some inference we should draw from your remarks?
 

GetWhatUGive

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ok

sorry, I'll rephrase it. The question is do you think telling women nothing about the other women you're with makes them imagine more or that it's better to drop little hints to keep them on edge and interested.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Why do you care?

If they're just FB, why would you want them to be more interested?

Are you sleeping with them hoping to have them fall in love with you? If so, this is a piss poor way of doing it.
 

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I think the former but I'd never get myself in this situation.

Its really a stupid idea to talk to women about other women you've dated. There is no point to it and it leaves you open for drama.
 
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