Telling the difference between low interest and shyness...

[stuka1939]

It is hard to tell sometimes...any pointers?

 

[Craig Reeves]

It is hard to tell sometimes...any pointers?

When a girl is shy, it usually means that she is having trouble contributing to the conversation or interaction. It usually means that she isn't interested in the conversation topic at hand. Shyness is usually just disinterest caused by her own insecurity. The best you can do is just change the conversation topic and just *hope* that it ends up being one that interests her more. Shy women are immensly difficult and often boring anyway. Most girls we think are "shy" are really just plain boring. Boring girls have no interest in anything so it's difficult for them to become interestED in anything or anybody.

 

[duke007]

Lol, very nicely put Craig.

I think the best you can do with these types is isolate them and ask personal rapport building questions about their family/study/work, and find interesting stuff about them to empathise on or joke about.

Usually effective when asking about their childhood - everyone has a fondness for their junior days. Once she's talking she'll feel close to you (as shy people struggle at parties/gatherings feeling left out).

Wash, rinse, repeat until you f*ck her. If she still shows no personality, just next and move on.

 

[schttrj]

go with the motto: no ejection before rejection!

if you persist, if she is shy, she will actually start warming up to you and show higher interest level.

if you persist, if she has low IL, then she will start more closing up and ignoring you, further lowering teh IL.

so, persist a li'l and you would know where you stand!