You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
morepoonplease said:So i've got this fvck buddy.... awesome in the sack, we both agree that its good to keep it where its at, however i feel like i want to start dating this chick, she turns me on so hard, i need this type of thing! is there a way to tell her that i want more than just the sex aspect without ruining what we have?
You HAVE this type of thing! :yes:morepoonplease said:So i've got this fvck buddy.... awesome in the sack, we both agree that its good to keep it where its at, however i feel like i want to start dating this chick, she turns me on so hard, i need this type of thing! is there a way to tell her that i want more than just the sex aspect without ruining what we have?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Then you are defeating the purpose of joining this forum if you are asking that question.morepoonplease said:So i've got this fvck buddy.... awesome in the sack, we both agree that its good to keep it where its at, however i feel like i want to start dating this chick, she turns me on so hard, i need this type of thing! is there a way to tell her that i want more than just the sex aspect without ruining what we have?