"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Telling her you like her

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So guys I went around searching the forums for this question but it was difficult finding anything about it.

It's a simple question: Is it good to tell a girl that you like or are interested in her?

From what I see, it can be good because the girl may look at you in a new light and start to become more interested in you than before. However, it can be bad because the mystery might be over and there's nothing left for her to "work" towards.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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From my experience.. no

*edit; mr. elor is right
if she has any brains at all and shes not a female wussy (insecure)
she knows it (why the hell would you do anything with her if you dont like her?)
 
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^^^^ I agree.
 
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I would suggest against that. That kind of **** never worked in the real world, just back in junior high school and stuff. If you tell a woman you like her, and get all weird/mushy, that will most likely push them away. Thats my experience tho. Like mr_elor said, let your actions do the talking.
 
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Push then pull. Pull then push. This is the art of seduction in a nutshell

"You know I like you, but it would never work out. Your not Greek."
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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