Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Telling her to do something (using SS)

UltimateDJuan

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Anyone have any patterns/examples of SS when it would help encourage her to ask you out on a date (or prom).

yes, yes, before anyone says anything, i know everyone is opposed to the idea of the girl asking a guy out, but it really does save time and effort :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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am4591

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Juliette Lorsange,

Do you have a sister named Justine? Just curious.

By the way, how's the Marquis these days?
 

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Go to www.furyhardware.com/dj/ and go into SS, then go and read my NLP and Highschool posts, IN ORDER, read vronskis lesson 1, and then you can create your own patterns.
 

am4591

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Sorry...I must've posted on the wrong thread.
 

UltimateDJuan

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oreo that link doesnt work

and also, why does the forum say that this thread has 13 replies when it really doesnt.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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this thread is afc




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