"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Telling her to do something (using SS)

UltimateDJuan

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Anyone have any patterns/examples of SS when it would help encourage her to ask you out on a date (or prom).

yes, yes, before anyone says anything, i know everyone is opposed to the idea of the girl asking a guy out, but it really does save time and effort :)
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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am4591

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Juliette Lorsange,

Do you have a sister named Justine? Just curious.

By the way, how's the Marquis these days?
 

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Go to www.furyhardware.com/dj/ and go into SS, then go and read my NLP and Highschool posts, IN ORDER, read vronskis lesson 1, and then you can create your own patterns.
 

am4591

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Sorry...I must've posted on the wrong thread.
 

UltimateDJuan

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oreo that link doesnt work

and also, why does the forum say that this thread has 13 replies when it really doesnt.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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this thread is afc




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