Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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telling her "nice ass"

pyros

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So I know this 18 years old chick who loves to add guys to her facebook. She has around 1000 friends, mainly guys.

Today she uploaded a pic in which she shows some new t-shirt she's bought, while posing sexy at the same time; you can clearly see her ass.

She got a few comments of beta orbiters saying things like: "nice shirt, nice smile, cool t-shirt, it fits you very well, etc." so I thought about being direct and commenting on her ass since she's showing it too, something like: "nice ass"


I dont know what results I'll get...not sure if I should or I shouldnt.

Opinions?

p.s.
I never comment on her facebook neither I like her pics.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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bcollarmechanic

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tell her in a private message, the worst that can happen is she deletes you lol

tell her she has a nice ass, and is sexy as fvck

shes not sexy for herself she is sexy for men like you
 

pyros

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it seems she's in a relationship with someone since last month, cause she changed her facebook status to this.

I asked her out a few weeks ago but she declined my offer eventhough she seemed into me, gave me her number, texted me etc. It seems she was already involved with some guy, whatever.

Yes she has more than 1.000 friends on fb...and of course she uploads some shít every damn day.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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gravityeyelids

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No. Just no. The whole idea of social media for cute girls is for them to get validation from dozens of guys who never have a chance and make them look bettter than they actually are. FB is a giant trap for guys. nothing good comes from it.

With hot/attention wh0re girls, the general rule is don't comment on her appearance/body in any way. Every fvcking guy that's ever made contact with her has done this. Guess how often it works? Almost never.

You are better than these orbiters. If you feel absolutely compelled to go after her, then i guess send her a FB message, but avoid complimenting her. And don't plan on getting anything out of her aside from a few b!tchy responses. Get her off the pedestal and make her vie for YOUR attention instead. Better yet, find better chicks to go after.
 

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wouldn't bother I'm pretty confident it wouldn't get acknowledged

see chicks want it all ,

they want to put a pic up of they're ass for guys to drool over but then as soon as you point out the unforgiving obvious you will get labelled a "creep"

true story
 

sylvester the cat

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pyros said:
it seems she's in a relationship with someone since last month, cause she changed her facebook status to this.

I asked her out a few weeks ago but she declined my offer eventhough she seemed into me, gave me her number, texted me etc. It seems she was already involved with some guy, whatever.

Yes she has more than 1.000 friends on fb...and of course she uploads some shít every damn day.
Why does this thread even exist?
 

Peaks&Valleys

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pyros said:
She got a few comments of beta orbiters saying things like: "nice shirt, nice smile, cool t-shirt, it fits you very well, etc." so I thought about being direct and commenting on her ass since she's showing it too, something like: "nice ass"
In all honestly, if you were going to say something, I think "nice ass" would cut through the bull $hit pretty nicely. Rather than hiding your attentions like the betas have done, you're a MAN who's getting down to the point. If she turns you down or gets upset (which I would doubt), or gets into this feigned tizzy about objectifying women, then you have your answer, and you can delete her as a "friend" and be on your way. However, it's going to cause action one way or another.

If I had an attention wh0re gf (which I wouldn't) and she was attention whoring, like this chick is, I wouldn't care less about the "nice smile" guys, it would be the bold "nice ass" guy that would cause me the most worry.
 
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