"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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telling her "nice ass"

pyros

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So I know this 18 years old chick who loves to add guys to her facebook. She has around 1000 friends, mainly guys.

Today she uploaded a pic in which she shows some new t-shirt she's bought, while posing sexy at the same time; you can clearly see her ass.

She got a few comments of beta orbiters saying things like: "nice shirt, nice smile, cool t-shirt, it fits you very well, etc." so I thought about being direct and commenting on her ass since she's showing it too, something like: "nice ass"


I dont know what results I'll get...not sure if I should or I shouldnt.

Opinions?

p.s.
I never comment on her facebook neither I like her pics.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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bcollarmechanic

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tell her in a private message, the worst that can happen is she deletes you lol

tell her she has a nice ass, and is sexy as fvck

shes not sexy for herself she is sexy for men like you
 

pyros

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it seems she's in a relationship with someone since last month, cause she changed her facebook status to this.

I asked her out a few weeks ago but she declined my offer eventhough she seemed into me, gave me her number, texted me etc. It seems she was already involved with some guy, whatever.

Yes she has more than 1.000 friends on fb...and of course she uploads some shít every damn day.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No. Just no. The whole idea of social media for cute girls is for them to get validation from dozens of guys who never have a chance and make them look bettter than they actually are. FB is a giant trap for guys. nothing good comes from it.

With hot/attention wh0re girls, the general rule is don't comment on her appearance/body in any way. Every fvcking guy that's ever made contact with her has done this. Guess how often it works? Almost never.

You are better than these orbiters. If you feel absolutely compelled to go after her, then i guess send her a FB message, but avoid complimenting her. And don't plan on getting anything out of her aside from a few b!tchy responses. Get her off the pedestal and make her vie for YOUR attention instead. Better yet, find better chicks to go after.
 

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wouldn't bother I'm pretty confident it wouldn't get acknowledged

see chicks want it all ,

they want to put a pic up of they're ass for guys to drool over but then as soon as you point out the unforgiving obvious you will get labelled a "creep"

true story
 

sylvester the cat

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pyros said:
it seems she's in a relationship with someone since last month, cause she changed her facebook status to this.

I asked her out a few weeks ago but she declined my offer eventhough she seemed into me, gave me her number, texted me etc. It seems she was already involved with some guy, whatever.

Yes she has more than 1.000 friends on fb...and of course she uploads some shít every damn day.
Why does this thread even exist?
 

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pyros said:
She got a few comments of beta orbiters saying things like: "nice shirt, nice smile, cool t-shirt, it fits you very well, etc." so I thought about being direct and commenting on her ass since she's showing it too, something like: "nice ass"
In all honestly, if you were going to say something, I think "nice ass" would cut through the bull $hit pretty nicely. Rather than hiding your attentions like the betas have done, you're a MAN who's getting down to the point. If she turns you down or gets upset (which I would doubt), or gets into this feigned tizzy about objectifying women, then you have your answer, and you can delete her as a "friend" and be on your way. However, it's going to cause action one way or another.

If I had an attention wh0re gf (which I wouldn't) and she was attention whoring, like this chick is, I wouldn't care less about the "nice smile" guys, it would be the bold "nice ass" guy that would cause me the most worry.
 
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