"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
telling girls there buetyfull before you kiss them?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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. . . .Just whisper it .. It's always nice to have a girl melt in yr arms before you plant one . .
. . But needless to say, one must be careful not to over do it/or do it from a position of weakness . . Then it get's a bit stupid . .
. . . . . . . But WTF, why limit to "beautiful" . . I find that girls also like being told that they are soft, how nice they smell, how sparkling their eyes are . . .
. . Once again . .Its important not to overdo it, and if you hesitate and not plant a kiss, then you get in to the nice guy/afc zone . .
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