"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Telling a woman you don't want a relationship

GetWhatUGive

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When you say "I'm not looking for a relationship right now." What do you really mean?

and please, don't give me a ****y answer - like it mean what it says - besides that is what I'm interested in.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ElChoclo

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It means you aren't actively looking, but rather, you are passively hoping to be the recipient of one. Or in a different context entirely it can mean, "You are very unattractive."

Alternatively, it can mean "I am currently overstocked with relationships right now. Warehouse space is at a premium." Or it can mean " I want to be alienated from humanity, to have no ties whatsoever with family or anyone, to be a young loner".
 

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Good grief

Isn't this the kind of thing emotional women do??
--Honey, when you said my thighs look fat, what did you mean? THEY LOOK FAT!!!

Sorry for the smart azz answer, but it's the only one I can give...When I say I'm not looking for a relationship, it means (drum roll please...) I'm not looking for a relationship. So, if they're looking for a relationship with me, they're gonna be disappointed.

Be direct. Give it to them straight, no chaser. Say what you mean and mean what you say.

Dudes like you are why women as so damn psycho crazy and analyze everything about men/women interactions.
 

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Veracity said:
Dudes like you are why women as so damn psycho crazy and analyze everything about men/women interactions.
I only asked a question. I didn't say I lied about this. I don't. I was only asking really if other guys lie when they say this.

Holy sh!t!
 

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I wouldn't lie either. If it was HER I didn't want a relationship with, I would tell her in different words:

I'm not looking for a relationship with you right now.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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