"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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telling a girl you like her online

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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KillaCam

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No.
 

Ace of Flames

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Why are you even TALKING to her online? Get her number right now and never use these blasted machines to talk to girls again!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Scorched

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ask her out

Get #

Or just ask her out sometime in the next week to week 1/2.
( then she'll give you her number )
Example... "I'm free on the 9th, we should grab a bite to eat..."
 

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DONT DO IT

You'll distroy any chance of ever meeting her.
Try to get hooked up with her in person. But DO NOT tell her you like her.
 

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why are u feeding the troll??

he just said:

"im a robot though

if she rejects me its gonna megahertz"

y is this even being addressed???
 

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don't know about you guys that just seems really really weak to be doing that....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I once told a girl not too long ago that I liked her in person and ended up getting head from it. Of course then she asked me "So I can't get pregnant from swallowing that right?" yeah....

For the record she was 18.
 

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Lol naw, I'm going to tell her in person when she gets back from the beach monday... this is the real situation:

we've been friends for a while and i think she knows how i feel and i think she might feel the same way and ive just not had the balls to tell her or do anything

when she gets back im just gonna go over to hang out at her house like usual but when she opens the door im gonna plant a fat one on her kisser


i posted the original thread cuz i was drunk and she was online and it was like 2 am


:} scumfrog: thanks for getting humour out of my drunk ass
 

Freddy1

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Just ask her out for coffee. Its non threatening.
 

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Kourt said:
I once told a girl not too long ago that I liked her in person and ended up getting head from it. Of course then she asked me "So I can't get pregnant from swallowing that right?" yeah....

For the record she was 18.
LOL :crackup:

Is there anything that would turn you on more?..... thats hot.... pfft
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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