Darth Seductus
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yes/no ?
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Ace of Flames
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Why are you even TALKING to her online? Get her number right now and never use these blasted machines to talk to girls again!
Darth Seductus
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im a robot though
if she rejects me its gonna megahertz
if she rejects me its gonna megahertz
Ace of Flames
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...Darth Seductus said:
Go. Go and die. Now.
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
skip2mylou781
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why are u feeding the troll??
he just said:
"im a robot though
if she rejects me its gonna megahertz"
y is this even being addressed???
he just said:
"im a robot though
if she rejects me its gonna megahertz"
y is this even being addressed???
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
I once told a girl not too long ago that I liked her in person and ended up getting head from it. Of course then she asked me "So I can't get pregnant from swallowing that right?" yeah....
For the record she was 18.
For the record she was 18.
Darth Seductus
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Lol naw, I'm going to tell her in person when she gets back from the beach monday... this is the real situation:
we've been friends for a while and i think she knows how i feel and i think she might feel the same way and ive just not had the balls to tell her or do anything
when she gets back im just gonna go over to hang out at her house like usual but when she opens the door im gonna plant a fat one on her kisser
i posted the original thread cuz i was drunk and she was online and it was like 2 am
:} scumfrog: thanks for getting humour out of my drunk ass
we've been friends for a while and i think she knows how i feel and i think she might feel the same way and ive just not had the balls to tell her or do anything
when she gets back im just gonna go over to hang out at her house like usual but when she opens the door im gonna plant a fat one on her kisser
i posted the original thread cuz i was drunk and she was online and it was like 2 am
:} scumfrog: thanks for getting humour out of my drunk ass
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
penkitten
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what are you wearing?