"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Telling a girl that most women are bad at sex?

Revolt

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I'm wondering if anyone else has any experience with this, I'm thinking of trying to work this into conversations regularly when I'm flirting with girls at the bar.

I was just talking about it off the cuff with the last girl I ended up dating, and she started getting really turned on and started trying to qualify herself to me that she is good in bed (She wasn't) and things got real sexual real quick, but not 100% certain if it was the convo or just general attitude, etc.

I talked about how 80% of women are pretty much cold fishes who mostly just lay there, maybe wanna do 3 or so positions where you do all the work, and if you're lucky give a really bad bj to start things off. This has actually been my experience, and other men I've talked to tend to confirm the statistic. The few who really knew what they were doing were ****ing freaks and it was amazing, but most really do seem to suck and need instruction, which they are often stubborn about taking.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Mike32ct

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That can work. I've made similar comments about most women not being good in bed. Then I use this c&f routine...

Mike: Some women are just so bad in the sack that sometimes I have to um fake it.

HB: Fake it?

Mike: Yeah I fake my orgasm <smirk>.

HB: LOL. C'mon you can't be serious. A guy CAN'T fake it.

Mike: I can.

HB: No way. How?

Mike: I just go "Uh uh uhhhhhhhh.". They don't know the difference lol.

HB: ROTFLMAO

HB: I hope you won't fake it with me.

Mike: It depends how good you are baby.

HB:
 

Diaforetikos

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You've used this once before? Well try it again. Best way to fine out is to experiment yourself. Once you fine tune the conversation to flow the way you want it, you'll be able to use this at it's fullest potential.

We can give you direct advice here seeing as how we don't know your personality. Expriment and report back.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julius_Seizeher

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This is actually a genius ploy, I'll run it and see what happens.

her: "What's up?"

me: "Oh, girls are so bad at sex, I don't know why us guys make such a big deal about it. To hell with it, I'm gonna go make a million bucks."
 
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