"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Telling a girl that most women are bad at sex?

Revolt

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I'm wondering if anyone else has any experience with this, I'm thinking of trying to work this into conversations regularly when I'm flirting with girls at the bar.

I was just talking about it off the cuff with the last girl I ended up dating, and she started getting really turned on and started trying to qualify herself to me that she is good in bed (She wasn't) and things got real sexual real quick, but not 100% certain if it was the convo or just general attitude, etc.

I talked about how 80% of women are pretty much cold fishes who mostly just lay there, maybe wanna do 3 or so positions where you do all the work, and if you're lucky give a really bad bj to start things off. This has actually been my experience, and other men I've talked to tend to confirm the statistic. The few who really knew what they were doing were ****ing freaks and it was amazing, but most really do seem to suck and need instruction, which they are often stubborn about taking.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Mike32ct

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That can work. I've made similar comments about most women not being good in bed. Then I use this c&f routine...

Mike: Some women are just so bad in the sack that sometimes I have to um fake it.

HB: Fake it?

Mike: Yeah I fake my orgasm <smirk>.

HB: LOL. C'mon you can't be serious. A guy CAN'T fake it.

Mike: I can.

HB: No way. How?

Mike: I just go "Uh uh uhhhhhhhh.". They don't know the difference lol.

HB: ROTFLMAO

HB: I hope you won't fake it with me.

Mike: It depends how good you are baby.

HB:
 

Diaforetikos

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You've used this once before? Well try it again. Best way to fine out is to experiment yourself. Once you fine tune the conversation to flow the way you want it, you'll be able to use this at it's fullest potential.

We can give you direct advice here seeing as how we don't know your personality. Expriment and report back.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Julius_Seizeher

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This is actually a genius ploy, I'll run it and see what happens.

her: "What's up?"

me: "Oh, girls are so bad at sex, I don't know why us guys make such a big deal about it. To hell with it, I'm gonna go make a million bucks."
 
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