Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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telling a girl - i like another girl vs i'm not attracted to you

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chance

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this girl on my back always calling me and texting me is annoying. shes nice and all but im not attracted to her. i gotta contact her soon though cause i havent spoken to her in a couple days after her calls n texts.

should i tell her i'm interested in another girl (cause i really am - and that girl likes me) or that i'm not attracted to her?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Why do you have to tell her either? You can ignore her calls.

Is this girl calling you to ask you out? Or it it just small talk? Leave her alone and she'll fade away.
 
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Iceberg said:
Why do you have to tell her either? You can ignore her calls.

Is this girl calling you to ask you out? Or it it just small talk? Leave her alone and she'll fade away.
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Isnt that kind of....socially unacceptable to not return calls? or a real jerk move, which in theory should make her MORE in love with him

just tell them they are not woman enough for you, the magic in this is she can and will interpret it the way she wants to which means nobody gets hurt and everyone wins
 
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oh sorry, forgot to mention we have spent a few nights together. had s3x a few times but it bored me fast. my mind is with another girl right now. she's a nice girl though so i dont know if ignoring her would be alright. not even sure if i should keep her as a friend cause she does a lot for me like driving me around or paying for things (even if i offer!) apart from that im just not attracted to her anymore.
 
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