"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Tell Your Halloween Stories

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Tis the month where we go to costume parties, drink, and girls are even more open to acting slutty. What's your Halloween Don Juan stories and what's your plan for this month?

For me, there's always three to four parties going on throughout the month with plenty of girls at each. I use to tryhard on my costume choice but I leave that up to the ladies these days. I will sometimes try to do something clever, but most of the time the joke is done after 30 minutes into the party. So I am sticking to more basic fundamental costumes like cop, arabian, etc. Whatever comes to mind that week.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Halloween is overhyped and overrated for getting random sex.....


From the article linked above..

Halloween
Common Sense: It’s easier to approach since you have a costume, and girls will be extra slutty since they’re already dressed like a slut.
The Reality: Groups are too large and distractions from other costumers too frequent. She’s in the mood for constant attention reinforcement, not a long conversation that leads to sex.


In my life this year, one of my married friends in the suburbs is having a house party. I am invited but concerned about going. I am concerned that it will be all established couples. I don't want to be in that environment.
 
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Halloween is overhyped and overrated for getting random sex.....


From the article linked above..

Halloween
Common Sense: It’s easier to approach since you have a costume, and girls will be extra slutty since they’re already dressed like a slut.
The Reality: Groups are too large and distractions from other costumers too frequent. She’s in the mood for constant attention reinforcement, not a long conversation that leads to sex.


In my life this year, one of my married friends in the suburbs is having a house party. I am invited but concerned about going. I am concerned that it will be all established couples. I don't want to be in that environment.
If it's a couple party, DO NOT GO unless you have a fetish for grabbing taken women. It's hella boring otherwise.

I've seen what you talked about at many halloween gatherings. It is an attention bonanza for them. But if you want to hear my experience, it is one of the times of the years where women compliment me on my costume. Not necessarily cause the costume is good but because the women use their costumes as their excuse to be more social and quirky. In short women approach a lot more cause the atmosphere is more loose. It's part of the costume they tell themselves. You also sometimes get to do a little roleplay cause girls love that stuff.
 

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If it's a couple party, DO NOT GO unless you have a fetish for grabbing taken women. It's hella boring otherwise.
I can't get a straight answer from my friend about this party. He plays in a co-ed sports league in a singles dense area despite living in a far out suburb. He's claiming some people from the league will come. It's a long drive for me. I can't see why any single woman in a co-ed sports league will go to a Halloween party at a house in the suburbs 20+ miles from the core of the city.
 

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I can't get a straight answer from my friend about this party. He plays in a co-ed sports league in a singles dense area despite living in a far out suburb. He's claiming some people from the league will come. It's a long drive for me. I can't see why any single woman in a co-ed sports league will go to a Halloween party at a house in the suburbs 20+ miles from the core of the city.
They wouldn't unless you were certain your friend had that kind of pull.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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They wouldn't unless you were certain your friend had that kind of pull.
I don't think he does at this point. Maybe 9-10 years ago. He's gotten way too beta.

In talking about past years, I have noticed more attention whoring at the Halloween parties I've been to rather than actual whoring. I've done a combination of going to public bars for Halloween events and some private parties.
 

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You're not wrong, but that's just a symptom of the smartphone culture in general. There's still a bit of that openness left yet I agree I barely see guys pulling like they did back in my college days. However I suspect I could go to the bars in my old college town and I guarantee I can walk away with a blonde college chick cause the game there is too easy.
 
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