"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tell Your Halloween Stories

HaleyBaron

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Tis the month where we go to costume parties, drink, and girls are even more open to acting slutty. What's your Halloween Don Juan stories and what's your plan for this month?

For me, there's always three to four parties going on throughout the month with plenty of girls at each. I use to tryhard on my costume choice but I leave that up to the ladies these days. I will sometimes try to do something clever, but most of the time the joke is done after 30 minutes into the party. So I am sticking to more basic fundamental costumes like cop, arabian, etc. Whatever comes to mind that week.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Halloween is overhyped and overrated for getting random sex.....


From the article linked above..

Halloween
Common Sense: It’s easier to approach since you have a costume, and girls will be extra slutty since they’re already dressed like a slut.
The Reality: Groups are too large and distractions from other costumers too frequent. She’s in the mood for constant attention reinforcement, not a long conversation that leads to sex.


In my life this year, one of my married friends in the suburbs is having a house party. I am invited but concerned about going. I am concerned that it will be all established couples. I don't want to be in that environment.
 
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Halloween is overhyped and overrated for getting random sex.....


From the article linked above..

Halloween
Common Sense: It’s easier to approach since you have a costume, and girls will be extra slutty since they’re already dressed like a slut.
The Reality: Groups are too large and distractions from other costumers too frequent. She’s in the mood for constant attention reinforcement, not a long conversation that leads to sex.


In my life this year, one of my married friends in the suburbs is having a house party. I am invited but concerned about going. I am concerned that it will be all established couples. I don't want to be in that environment.
If it's a couple party, DO NOT GO unless you have a fetish for grabbing taken women. It's hella boring otherwise.

I've seen what you talked about at many halloween gatherings. It is an attention bonanza for them. But if you want to hear my experience, it is one of the times of the years where women compliment me on my costume. Not necessarily cause the costume is good but because the women use their costumes as their excuse to be more social and quirky. In short women approach a lot more cause the atmosphere is more loose. It's part of the costume they tell themselves. You also sometimes get to do a little roleplay cause girls love that stuff.
 

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If it's a couple party, DO NOT GO unless you have a fetish for grabbing taken women. It's hella boring otherwise.
I can't get a straight answer from my friend about this party. He plays in a co-ed sports league in a singles dense area despite living in a far out suburb. He's claiming some people from the league will come. It's a long drive for me. I can't see why any single woman in a co-ed sports league will go to a Halloween party at a house in the suburbs 20+ miles from the core of the city.
 

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I can't get a straight answer from my friend about this party. He plays in a co-ed sports league in a singles dense area despite living in a far out suburb. He's claiming some people from the league will come. It's a long drive for me. I can't see why any single woman in a co-ed sports league will go to a Halloween party at a house in the suburbs 20+ miles from the core of the city.
They wouldn't unless you were certain your friend had that kind of pull.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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They wouldn't unless you were certain your friend had that kind of pull.
I don't think he does at this point. Maybe 9-10 years ago. He's gotten way too beta.

In talking about past years, I have noticed more attention whoring at the Halloween parties I've been to rather than actual whoring. I've done a combination of going to public bars for Halloween events and some private parties.
 

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You're not wrong, but that's just a symptom of the smartphone culture in general. There's still a bit of that openness left yet I agree I barely see guys pulling like they did back in my college days. However I suspect I could go to the bars in my old college town and I guarantee I can walk away with a blonde college chick cause the game there is too easy.
 
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