"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Tell us about the craziest girl you ever dated.
- Thread starter jmeredi
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
MidnightResistance
Senior Don Juan
AMAZING SEX! I let it go on for 2 weeks until I couldn't stand it any longer.
Another chick who was obsessed with me (although I had given a promise ring to some other chick) was boiling sheep skulls in the kitchen sink.
diplomatic_lies
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2) She waited for me outside my house (again, she used a phone directory to find it)
3) Said she loved me after the 1st date. I was flattered. Stupid, but flattered.
4) Make derigatory remarks about my female friends to their face. Threatened to kill one of them. This was when the red lights flashed in my head.
5) Asked me what I'd do with her body if she died (ie. embalm it?)
6) A guy was ribbing me a bit (some stranger I saw at the bar) and she beat him up pretty hard.
Yeah this was one crazy nutter. I had to make her lose interest in me by becoming a desperate loser in order to get her off my case. First time I actually went AFC to get rid of a girl!
One girl I knew for about two weeks, on our first date we hung out for about 2 hours then went back to her place to make out for 5 hours. she told me lots of personal things and said that she could fall for me, then asked me if that scared me, cuz usually guys run away when she says that to them. Of course I just thought I was the biggest stud ever so I was like "no that doesn't scare me".
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Black_Italian
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Her: I have to tell you something
Me: OMG you didnt use to be a man did you
Her: (Bites my shoulder) hehe no. I have a baby........... Do you still love me?
For the first time in my life i had nothing to say. I was in shock. Needless to say i got out of there pretty fast. She called me countless times over the next month wanting to hookup again.
Ninja out