"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Maximus Rex

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How many of y'all ACTUALLY wash your hands before eating when dining out? I do 100% of the time. If you're out on a date and she doesn't wash their hands before eating, does she lose points?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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dasein

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If it's something I'm going to touch with my hands, 100%. If it's going to be purely silverware, eh 50%. To be honest, I don't even pay attention whether women wash their hands or not.
 

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Maximus Rex said:
How many of y'all ACTUALLY wash your hands before eating when dining out? I do 100% of the time. If you're out on a date and she doesn't wash their hands before eating, does she lose points?
I think most people don't even bother washing their hands before they eat.

Somebody can have a cold or flu touching the menus and the door handles of the restaurant. I always like clean hands before I eat.

My GF washes her hands or uses hand sanitizer when dining so it isn't a problem.

I've been on dates where girls didn't even bother. After I made a comment they went to wash them.

Today I was at a lunch meeting and some guy finished taking a $hit and walked right out of the restroom stall without washing his hands. He was ordering his food touching his menu when I got back to my table. Somebody might eat with their fingers touching that menu not washing their hands.



dasein said:
If it's something I'm going to touch with my hands, 100%. If it's going to be purely silverware, eh 50%. To be honest, I don't even pay attention whether women wash their hands or not.
Sounds like you don't have very many dates if you are that unobservant.

Women aren't supposed to touch the paintings at the art gallery.

That won't be a problem for you when you take them out for appetizers at a fancy restaurant afterwards for impression.
 

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I would guess that a lot of people get sick because they washed their hands...then touched the faucet, towel dispenser, and door handle on the way out of the bathroom.
 

dasein

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Soolaimon said:
My GF washes her hands or uses hand sanitizer when dining so it isn't a problem.
"I wash my GF, Rosy Palm, when dining, so it isn't a problem."

Fixed.

That "coffee dates suck" comment I posted, what, a month ago? still chapping your ass I see.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I don't wash my hands before eating. You ever use the bathroom and don't wash your hands because your lazy, and then get into a position where you have to shake some ones hand? I have several times. As I'm shaking their hand I think to myself "Man if they knew, they wouldn't be shaking my hand" but they don't know, so no one gets hurt.
 
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