Maximus Rex
Banned
How many of y'all ACTUALLY wash your hands before eating when dining out? I do 100% of the time. If you're out on a date and she doesn't wash their hands before eating, does she lose points?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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- Thread starter Maximus Rex
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
I think most people don't even bother washing their hands before they eat.Maximus Rex said:
Somebody can have a cold or flu touching the menus and the door handles of the restaurant. I always like clean hands before I eat.
My GF washes her hands or uses hand sanitizer when dining so it isn't a problem.
I've been on dates where girls didn't even bother. After I made a comment they went to wash them.
Today I was at a lunch meeting and some guy finished taking a $hit and walked right out of the restroom stall without washing his hands. He was ordering his food touching his menu when I got back to my table. Somebody might eat with their fingers touching that menu not washing their hands.
Sounds like you don't have very many dates if you are that unobservant.dasein said:
Women aren't supposed to touch the paintings at the art gallery.
That won't be a problem for you when you take them out for appetizers at a fancy restaurant afterwards for impression.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
I would guess that a lot of people get sick because they washed their hands...then touched the faucet, towel dispenser, and door handle on the way out of the bathroom.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Germiest part of a woman is her phone.
VikingKing
Banned
I don't wash my hands before eating. You ever use the bathroom and don't wash your hands because your lazy, and then get into a position where you have to shake some ones hand? I have several times. As I'm shaking their hand I think to myself "Man if they knew, they wouldn't be shaking my hand" but they don't know, so no one gets hurt.