Tell My Pledge Brothers Im a Virgin?

[speakeasy]

One frat on my campus, takes girls from a sororiety and makes them strip down so the guys in the frat can point out every little imperfection that they have, then each guy chooses a girl and sleeps with her.

That actually sounds kinda fun to me!

 

[speakeasy]

There are two things about you that speak volumes:

1.) You care what these douchebags think.

2.) You belong to a frat with these douchebags.

If you truly care about what these guys think, I strongly recommend doing some soul searching for that inner game (and you DO care, otherwise you wouldn't have posted this message on the forum).

And if you're worried about these guys laughing at you, why are you even in the frat to begin with? I've never understood that about fraternities. It always seems to be a bunch of guys leaning on each other for social proof.

But seriously, if you really want to improve yourself, consider leaving the frat in the spring. It's such a false sense of confidence.

Outside the social confidence reasons and getting laid, I think a lot of people join frats also as a way of networking and getting better jobs when they graduate. I can't stand frats myself, but I've known people that got hooked up with some pretty sweet well-paying gigs because their frat brothers hooked them up.

 

[ducaro]

tell them you are a virgin and also tell them why!

because.. you have great respect for your member down there and do not offer him to every woman that spreads!

 

[Serialized3]

If you go out to a bar and somebody fvcks with you, then there are usually 15-20 guys who have your back immediately. It was a great time for me.

Popped collar pussies. How about some one on one, you faggots? Too tough for some fair fights?

 

[FutureSpartan]

tell them you are a virgin and also tell them why!

because.. you have great respect for your member down there and do not offer him to every woman that spreads!

Nah, I dont want to grandstand and act like its not a big deal. Ive already told one pledge brother that im a virgin.

Frankly he didnt seem bothered and even empathized with me when I told how I would f*ck things up by being too desperate for sex.


So whatever, some guys may respect me, others will probably snicker behind my back. I guess a true DJ shouldnt give a f*ck. I also cold approach, which im sure most of those guys dont have the balls to do.

 

[L777]

This is an example of an ass hole who has no idea what he's talking about because he hasn't been there. I don't recall anyone saying that you needed a fraternity to get laid. I didn't need anyone to get laid. I DON'T need anyone to get laid. I guess your interpretation of a fraternal organization is what you see in the movies. Fortunately it is nothing like what the movie industry or television makes it out to be.

Most of the United States Presidents have been in fraternities. Fraternities make up for a majority of campus fund raising and community service projects. My fraternity required a certain grade point average in order to stay active. Not to mention the fact that you build a network of resources that will benefit you for life.

If you don't know what you're talking about you should shut the **** up.

Errr....I'm in the US right now, and I'm also on the soccer team so get invited (and occasionally go) to Frat parties literally every weekend.

Trust me, this is coming from a completely non-hating, non-envious observer: they're all lightweight (in terms of drinking), clueless (in terms of style/taste/dress sense), chauvenistic (talk about women like s.hit, then kiss up to them to try and get laid like a 15 year old would) d.ickheads. Oh yea, girls also love the fact I got an accent, so, yea, I kinda get laid a lot.

Pwnd.

 

[FutureSpartan]

Errr....I'm in the US right now, and I'm also on the soccer team so get invited (and occasionally go) to Frat parties literally every weekend.

Trust me, this is coming from a completely non-hating, non-envious observer: they're all lightweight (in terms of drinking), clueless (in terms of style/taste/dress sense), chauvenistic (talk about women like s.hit, then kiss up to them to try and get laid like a 15 year old would) d.ickheads. Oh yea, girls also love the fact I got an accent, so, yea, I kinda get laid a lot.

Pwnd.

Haha...you know a bunch of my pledge brothers are like that...but some of them are really cool. I think its the people that make the fraternity, not the other way around. A lot of the current Brothers are actually really cool guys.

Yeah there are some that seem to think being in a fraternity gives you a license to be an assh*le to people, but I see that more as an inherent character flaw. One guy is particularly like that, he struts around and tries to act hardass. He comes off like a complete douchebag.

I dont plan on being that stereotypical frat jock...

 

[L777]

Haha...you know a bunch of my pledge brothers are like that...but some of them are really cool. I think its the people that make the fraternity, not the other way around. A lot of the current Brothers are actually really cool guys.

Yeah there are some that seem to think being in a fraternity gives you a license to be an assh*le to people, but I see that more as an inherent character flaw. One guy is particularly like that, he struts around and tries to act hardass. He comes off like a complete douchebag.

I dont plan on being that stereotypical frat jock...

Yea to be fair some of them are cool. But you can just embarass them with wit. Like this one tosser at a party said to me the other day, "What, you looking at douchebag?" for NO reason at all, and I looked him up and down and go, "Not much". He didn't get it but most ppl there laughed at him...lol what a f.uckin meathead.

 

[tsmith2334]

i can see how you be stressed in that situation.. i'd be stressed too

when i'm with friends, i kind leave my virginity up to their imagination.. i don't disclose it one way or the other, i view it as a private kind of thing (for now anyway)