"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tell me your biggest problems ASIAN MEN.

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Hey everyone, I’m currently trying to find out how one could make the lives of asian men specifically, in their 20’s a lot easier ;)
Which is why I have two very simple questions:
  1. As a busy asian man in your 20’s, what are the 2 biggest issues you’re dealing with, in regards to your dating life?
  2. Regarding your dating life, what would you wish for more than anything else?
Thanks so much in advance - looking forward to reading your answers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zonn

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Looks like the dudes have no dating issues.
 
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I am Indian so technically South Asian.

1. Too many options, for real. I cannot decide on a girl sometimes and feel like I have to actually turn down girls. I've had girls spam me at times because I went on a date with them but there are just too many options. At times I am juggling too many girls than I can actually handle.

2. Time to **** a lot of different girls but I can **** like 5 different girls a week max, maybe 7 but that is a girl a day. It just takes so much investment, some girls want to stick to you even when you have ****ed.
 

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I've been seeing Asian men, some considered geeky with females, seen a geeky awkward one with a blonde chick pretty cute chick
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The biggest problem for Asian men is the same for all men.

It's cowardice, supplicating attitude, lack of leadership skills, lack of ambition, etc - basically it all boils down to extreme laziness and being fatherless.
 

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I am not in my 20s but in the past I remember times when I'd walk down the street with say some blonde woman and people would just stare at us in what I felt was an uncomfortable manner. And I got the feeling some would even laugh at us.

Back then I was mentally weak let it effect me and that would result in not getting anywhere with the woman in question. These days I can handle it if I am well dressed. I am a South Asian dude quite dark skinned most people assume I am of African origin.

So I'd say I had issues getting it on with women who are "different" from myself in appearance.
 
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