Right now there's this girl at this camp im going to. but i only have three days left to try to get her. (because im going away for the weekend and get back on wedenesday then we have thursday&friday) We have a camp out on wednesday . That could be a good time to make a move. But the only problem is i'm in the friend zone and i dont know how much she likes me. And theres one guy she flirts alot with. I do well when that guys not around. In short terms i need to get this guy out of the way and i need to get out of the friend zone in three days so in school it'll be easier to advance. What should I do???
"Blank Mind on Dates? She's Dropping Hints You Keep Missing"
The plates get cleared and the silence lands like a brick. You can feel her waiting. Your brain offers up your commute, your job, the weather — topics that have ended more second dates than bad breath.
Here's what most guys never learn: women hand out free conversational material all night long. Tiny clues about what they actually want to discuss. Catch them and you never run out of things to say — because she's telling you what to say next.
Rule 4 of the "22 Rules" trains your ear to catch every single one.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
RabidDog
Don Juan
Re: oh and
It means your like a soldier on d-day, most likely dead before you even hit the sand.
check_mate_kid_uk
Master Don Juan
i am oging ot ignore that comment aoubt D-day you ****** , now aobut the original post if you have hit the friend zone, its ussualy hard to get out, you have to show your romantic intrest to get out of it, luckily for you (and all of us) there is 1 easy way to do this, just use kino and once you have done that you can start flirting and naytinhg else you want, just read the tips on the website and 1 of the bibles explains about kino if you do not no what it is
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
If your stuck in the friends zone, and the girl's even gone out of her way to tell you that, then your chances are probably about as good as me getting a cold approach from Britney Spears (i.e. 1 in a million).
You need to ask yourself if you value her as a friend, if you do then don't mess it up, keep her as social proof and look for someone else.
If you not bothered then yes the only way to do it is by literally 'DJing the pants off her!', lots of kino, following the stuff on this site religiously, and using all the tips you can find (think the way you talk, trance words or whatever, that sorta stuff).
Also make sure you the total alpha male while doing this, with no other blokes she'd consider around. Plus if you can get her drunk then that'll help
Then pick your moment and go for it, make sure though by the time you actually make your move, you've had constant kino (i.e. holding hands etc) for at least 30 mins before.
I've succesfully done this once, but that relied on us being being drunk, and our friendship has gone down the pan since!. So be warned!.
You need to ask yourself if you value her as a friend, if you do then don't mess it up, keep her as social proof and look for someone else.
If you not bothered then yes the only way to do it is by literally 'DJing the pants off her!', lots of kino, following the stuff on this site religiously, and using all the tips you can find (think the way you talk, trance words or whatever, that sorta stuff).
Also make sure you the total alpha male while doing this, with no other blokes she'd consider around. Plus if you can get her drunk then that'll help
Then pick your moment and go for it, make sure though by the time you actually make your move, you've had constant kino (i.e. holding hands etc) for at least 30 mins before.
I've succesfully done this once, but that relied on us being being drunk, and our friendship has gone down the pan since!. So be warned!.
RabidDog
Don Juan
It was an anlogy, so your the 8itch. My GGF died in that invasion.. so I do not use that lightly. So, kindly stfu.
If she says those exact words, regardless what the noobs say, you are dead in the water. Escaping does indeed happen, but it's extremely rare even when she doesnt tell you that. Which she has, so your chances are Slim * None. Chalk this up as a learning experience and move on.
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If she says those exact words, regardless what the noobs say, you are dead in the water. Escaping does indeed happen, but it's extremely rare even when she doesnt tell you that. Which she has, so your chances are Slim * None. Chalk this up as a learning experience and move on.
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Kineti[C]harm
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The comment on the beachassault cracked me up bad
Ok well to be exact what she said was " I just don't want you to change around me." Which i don't know exactly what that means. By the way that D-day analogy was pretty funny man. haha. Um and i'll search up that Kino thing. And i'll try to stay confident. I'm going in tommorow lol. And thatnks for the replies.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.