Right now there's this girl at this camp im going to. but i only have three days left to try to get her. (because im going away for the weekend and get back on wedenesday then we have thursday&friday) We have a camp out on wednesday . That could be a good time to make a move. But the only problem is i'm in the friend zone and i dont know how much she likes me. And theres one guy she flirts alot with. I do well when that guys not around. In short terms i need to get this guy out of the way and i need to get out of the friend zone in three days so in school it'll be easier to advance. What should I do???
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RabidDog
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Re: oh and
It means your like a soldier on d-day, most likely dead before you even hit the sand.
check_mate_kid_uk
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i am oging ot ignore that comment aoubt D-day you ****** , now aobut the original post if you have hit the friend zone, its ussualy hard to get out, you have to show your romantic intrest to get out of it, luckily for you (and all of us) there is 1 easy way to do this, just use kino and once you have done that you can start flirting and naytinhg else you want, just read the tips on the website and 1 of the bibles explains about kino if you do not no what it is
If your stuck in the friends zone, and the girl's even gone out of her way to tell you that, then your chances are probably about as good as me getting a cold approach from Britney Spears (i.e. 1 in a million).
You need to ask yourself if you value her as a friend, if you do then don't mess it up, keep her as social proof and look for someone else.
If you not bothered then yes the only way to do it is by literally 'DJing the pants off her!', lots of kino, following the stuff on this site religiously, and using all the tips you can find (think the way you talk, trance words or whatever, that sorta stuff).
Also make sure you the total alpha male while doing this, with no other blokes she'd consider around. Plus if you can get her drunk then that'll help
Then pick your moment and go for it, make sure though by the time you actually make your move, you've had constant kino (i.e. holding hands etc) for at least 30 mins before.
I've succesfully done this once, but that relied on us being being drunk, and our friendship has gone down the pan since!. So be warned!.
You need to ask yourself if you value her as a friend, if you do then don't mess it up, keep her as social proof and look for someone else.
If you not bothered then yes the only way to do it is by literally 'DJing the pants off her!', lots of kino, following the stuff on this site religiously, and using all the tips you can find (think the way you talk, trance words or whatever, that sorta stuff).
Also make sure you the total alpha male while doing this, with no other blokes she'd consider around. Plus if you can get her drunk then that'll help
Then pick your moment and go for it, make sure though by the time you actually make your move, you've had constant kino (i.e. holding hands etc) for at least 30 mins before.
I've succesfully done this once, but that relied on us being being drunk, and our friendship has gone down the pan since!. So be warned!.
RabidDog
Don Juan
It was an anlogy, so your the 8itch. My GGF died in that invasion.. so I do not use that lightly. So, kindly stfu.
If she says those exact words, regardless what the noobs say, you are dead in the water. Escaping does indeed happen, but it's extremely rare even when she doesnt tell you that. Which she has, so your chances are Slim * None. Chalk this up as a learning experience and move on.
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If she says those exact words, regardless what the noobs say, you are dead in the water. Escaping does indeed happen, but it's extremely rare even when she doesnt tell you that. Which she has, so your chances are Slim * None. Chalk this up as a learning experience and move on.
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Kineti[C]harm
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The comment on the beachassault cracked me up bad
Ok well to be exact what she said was " I just don't want you to change around me." Which i don't know exactly what that means. By the way that D-day analogy was pretty funny man. haha. Um and i'll search up that Kino thing. And i'll try to stay confident. I'm going in tommorow lol. And thatnks for the replies.
What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.