"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
tell me something about you i dont know
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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Do felonies count?Originally posted by Jizz
I like to ask a gal this but if a gal asks you this, what would your reply be?
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Uh. That's the answer.Originally posted by Jizz
I dont know what felonies means so yeh sure why not
Her: "Tell me something about you I don't know."
You: "Do felonies count?"
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You: "It was statuatory rape, not rape rape."
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You: "I have a unique birthmark. No, you can't see it now."
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You: "I won an award for 'best tongue.' once."
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You: "My last girlfriend almost had a mild heart attack during sex with me."
You don't know what a felony is? How old are you?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
By the way Jizz, I think you did well. Given that she was brunette, that made for a nice neg. Look how she started qualifying herself to you after you said that. Good work.
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